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Linda Heath's avatar

I have been taken aback by someone entering a room full of strangers and, with a smile, saying "good morning." I remembered how it made me feel about the words, but a deep, good feeling about the person. I was never taught that growing up, but now, later in life, I no longer walk into a room without saying good morning or evening. I now look at people, smile, and just say a simple hello. I must admit, the ones who taught me this courtesy were people of color. That is why diversity is a wonderful thing to have in the world. I am grateful.

Shelly Brown's avatar

Absolutely! I just said, “Good morning” to my two dogs. ☺️

Polite acknowledgment of people in every station of life is not only good manners, but was historically vital to the success of Black students and professionals. My dissertation is on Black othermothers - women in supporting and often invisible roles who provide unwritten, invaluable guidance. They were often the keepers of inside knowledge only afforded to those with a permanent invitation to the party because of race, gender, or pedigree. Yes, manners matter!