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Island Wisdom

Andrea M. Garraway — Tue, 21 Jul 2026 10:01:19 GMT

If you ever want to frustrate a Caribbean mother, walk into her kitchen while she’s cooking and ask her for exact measurements (lol). Ask her, “Ma, how many teaspoons of thyme did you just put in the pumpkin?” She will look at you like you asked her to calculate the wingspan of a mosquito. “Teaspoons?” she’ll kiss her teeth and say, “you just put until …

Summer Travels

Andrea M. Garraway — Sun, 19 Jul 2026 10:31:06 GMT

I think of myself as a lover girl.

I love being loved. I love loving deeply. I thrive on meaningful connection, shared experiences, and building a life alongside people who matter to me. For most of my life, I have viewed connection as one of life’s greatest gifts.

But somewhere this summer between countries, multiple airports, unfamiliar streets, and a s…

Loneliness

Andrea M. Garraway — Fri, 17 Jul 2026 10:01:36 GMT

Loneliness is one of the most overlooked emotional struggles in modern society.

A person can be surrounded by people, active on social media, employed, married, or socially engaged and still feel alone. Loneliness is not simply the absence of company; it is the absence of meaningful emotional connection. It is the feeling that no one fully sees you, unde…

On Edge

Andrea M. Garraway — Wed, 15 Jul 2026 10:01:48 GMT

There is a kind of “edge” many people are living on right now that has little to do with ambition or triumph. It is not the cinematic edge of breakthrough or transformation we see on TV. It is the quieter, more destabilizing edge of uncertainty, where employment feels fragile, egg prices shift expectations at the register, gas prices dictate mobility, a…

Island Wisdom

Andrea M. Garraway — Mon, 13 Jul 2026 10:01:56 GMT

If there is one cardinal sin in a Caribbean household, it is walking past an elder, or anyone, really, without acknowledging their existence.

Growing up, my mother made it very clear that invisibility was not an option. You could not slink into a room, keep your head down, and quietly take a seat. Absolutely not. If you entered a space where other human …

Anxiety in the Divide

Andrea M. Garraway — Sat, 11 Jul 2026 10:00:37 GMT

Anxiety is no longer just a personal disorder. It’s a part of our cultural norm.

People are carrying stress that extends far beyond individual problems. Financial uncertainty, political division, social unrest, global conflict, and constant exposure to crisis through media have created an emotional climate where many individuals feel psychologically over…

Understanding Cognitive Functioning

Andrea M. Garraway — Thu, 09 Jul 2026 10:02:27 GMT

“The greatest threat to your mind isn’t aging—it’s living on autopilot.”

Have you ever walked into a room and forgotten why you were there?

Read the same paragraph three times without remembering a single word?

Lost your train of thought mid-sentence?

Many people immediately assume something is wrong with them. They worry that they’re becoming forgetful, le…

Understanding Cognitive Functioning

Andrea M. Garraway — Tue, 07 Jul 2026 22:00:24 GMT

I have more to say, so here is part two.

Did you know that your brain consumes about 20% of your body’s energy, even though it accounts for only about 2% of your body weight?

Photo by BUDDHI Kumar SHRESTHA on Unsplash

Cognitive functioning isn’t just something psychologists measure in a clinic, it shapes nearly every moment of our daily lives. Readers o…

Living on the Edge, Not of Glory

Andrea M. Garraway — Tue, 07 Jul 2026 13:04:05 GMT

Many individuals are experiencing chronic housing stress. Although we worry about being able to make rent every month, somehow we turn up the effort, and make it, even if barely. Overtime we learn how to function in a sustained state of alertness as triggered by our instability of our basic needs. Take this familiar feeling that you can relate to and am…

Love ...

Andrea M. Garraway — Sat, 04 Jul 2026 10:58:03 GMT

Photo by Kelly Sikkema on Unsplash

There was a time when love felt private. It lived in kitchens, in church pews, at family reunions, in text messages that said “Did you make it home safe?” It was something we practiced to let people know we cared. Today, love has become political whether we intended it to or not.

We are living in a season shaped by divis…

250 Years of Independence

Andrea M. Garraway — Thu, 02 Jul 2026 00:35:06 GMT

As America marks 250 years since the signing of the United States Declaration of Independence, there is an opportunity to celebrate with honesty as well as pride.

The story of the United States has never belonged to one group alone. It was written by Indigenous peoples, immigrants, women, laborers, inventors, soldiers, entrepreneurs, artists, scientists,…

Gambling Costs More Than Money

Andrea M. Garraway — Mon, 29 Jun 2026 11:55:08 GMT

“The biggest gamble isn’t placing the bet. It’s believing the next one will fix what the last one broke.”

On the train in NY, almost every conversation you over heard has something to do with the NBA Finals and now watching the World Cup. For many fans, it’s harmless entertainment. For others, it’s a dangerous relationship that includes “risk-free” bets,…

Clean up; Clean up

Andrea M. Garraway — Wed, 24 Jun 2026 13:08:49 GMT

There is a reason many people feel emotionally lighter after cleaning their home. It is not simply about aesthetics or productivity. The environment around us often reflects, and affects, the environment within us.

A cluttered house or car can quietly contribute to mental exhaustion, irritability, distraction, and overwhelm. In contrast, a clean and org…

Procrastination Is Not Laziness

Andrea M. Garraway — Wed, 10 Jun 2026 15:02:06 GMT

Few habits are judged more harshly than procrastination.

People often describe themselves as “lazy,” “unmotivated,” or “bad at discipline” when they delay tasks, avoid responsibilities, or struggle to begin something important. But procrastination is rarely as simple as not caring or not wanting to work.

In many cases, procrastination is not a character f…

Life as Keepy Uppy

Andrea M. Garraway — Wed, 03 Jun 2026 14:24:03 GMT

Life as Keepy Uppy: The Modern Balancing Act of Staying Afloat

There’s a childhood game that many people remember without ever needing its formal name: a balloon, a bit of open space, and the simple rule that it must not touch the ground.

No finish line. No scoreboard. Just continuous motion.

Most recently a popular cartoon brought this game back into circ…

When Everything Feels Urgent

Andrea M. Garraway — Wed, 27 May 2026 13:41:51 GMT

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There is a particular kind of exhaustion that doesn’t come from physical labor, but from sustained emotional vigilance.

It shows up in the way people scroll headlines before bed “just to stay informed,” only to find themselves more anxious than when they started. It appears in conversations that begin with policy and end wit…